Nigerian actor Uzor Arukwe has responded to backlash over his role in the newly released YouTube film Love in Every Word, which has sparked a lively online discussion. Since its debut, the movie has surged in popularity, especially among women, for its focus on love, duty, and financial support in relationships. However, some male viewers have criticized its portrayal of men, fueling days of intense social media debate.

Critics have targeted Arukwe’s character—a generous, devoted ‘Odogwu’ who fiercely supports and spends on his partner—claiming it’s an unrealistic depiction. One X user directly called out the actor, accusing him of misrepresenting Anambra men as ‘simps,’ a term for someone who overly caters to others’ desires, particularly in romance. “Anambra men aren’t simps. Your movie only appeals to women who fantasize about an Odogwu draining his bank account for them,” the user wrote.

Arukwe stood by his role and the film’s message, countering, “Caring for your woman and spending on her doesn’t make you a simp—it makes you a responsible man. How else do you express love if you can’t meet your partner’s needs with what you have?” His defense, alongside the film, has reignited conversations about financial roles in relationships. While many have praised his perspective, others maintain that love and masculinity shouldn’t hinge on monetary support.

Taking care of your woman and spending money on her doesn’t make you a simp. It only makes you a responsible man. How else do you show love to your partner if you can’t take care of their needs from the abundance of your wealth? 😊 https://t.co/SS94l6JIFw

— Uzor ‘Dark Horse’ Arukwe (@uzorarukwe) March 11, 2025