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June 3, 2021 Chimamanda Adichie Says Western Wedding Traditions Sidelines The Mother Of The Bride

Chimamanda Adichie Says Western Wedding Traditions Sidelines The Mother Of The Bride

The award-winning writer recounts how she changed the tradition at her wedding.

The award-winning writer made this known via her Instagram page on Wednesday, June 2, 2021, while reminiscing how she gave her late mother her due respect during her wedding years ago.

"I have always felt that western wedding traditions sideline the mother of the bride — the father walks the bride down the aisle, the father has the first dance with the bride, often the father gives a speech while the mother doesn’t," she wrote.

"Our wedding, many years ago, was small and lovely, just as we wanted it. I asked family and friends not to post any photos publicly. I wanted privacy. But my need for privacy is now superceded by my desire to publicly honour the rare and wonderful woman I called my mother."

"And I hope this perhaps inspires any young women (and men) out there who are questioning any kind of convention.⁣"

Before the wedding, I decided that both my parents would walk me down the aisle. And I decided that my first dance would be with my mother. My father, who I often teasingly called DOS for “Defender of Spouse,” was very supportive."

"He wasn’t much of a dancer - I inherited his unrhythmic genes - but my mother was. And my mother’s joy on that day was a gorgeous glowing thing."⁣

Chimamanda also said that it is okay for people to always make changes to whatever traditions they are accustomed with.

"Convention is something made up by somebody and then repeated by others. If convention feels wrong for you, if your skin bristles and your spirit stalls at the thought of doing something “the way it is done,” then stop and act.⁣ We can make changes. We can try and craft small slices of the life we want."

"We can unmake convention to make things more just, more complete, more beautiful. Not everyone will be happy with you, because it is human nature to try and conserve things as they are, but your spirit will feel full, and there is nothing more meaningful than knowing you have been true to yourself.⁣"

 

 

 

June 2, 2021 How To Save, Budget And Spend Your Salary

How To Save, Budget And Spend Your Salary

Are you saving or spending money or investing in ponzi schemes?

Parkinson law states that; no matter how much money people earn, they tend to spend the entire amount and a little bit more besides that. Their expenses rise together with their earnings.

When you first started working you were earning way less you are now. But now you seem to need all your money because you must maintain your current lifestyle. It seems as if we are chasing more money to spend more.

This is where financial management becomes important.

How to manage your finances

  1. Earn more; Because your expenses increase with your income, earning more money is never a bad idea, there is always going to be increased lifestyle expectations, a better house, car, phone. Get your money up!
  2. Do not engage in Ponzi schemes: Now you earn more, and you have extra cash, Ponzi schemes seem so attractive. But they are nothing more than schemes that feed on your greed. Low risks investments are always the best.
  3. Plan all your expenses and set financial goals: So, you don’t find yourself scraping for money before the month ends, plan all you need to spend that month and stick with it. If it means moving your money to another account, then do it. Write down what your financial goals are. This is not the time to go on expensive dates or try to keep up with other people. If you do not have money, stay home.
  4. Use saving platforms: They are helpful when saving towards a goal of saving for the sake of it. Lock your money in there and throw the key away.
  5. Reward yourself for good financial discipline and buy one or two luxury items.

May 31, 2021 Unique Things About The Igala People You Didn’t Know

Unique Things About The Igala People You Didn’t Know

The Igala people are an ethnic group of Nigeria. Their homeland, former Igala kingdom is a triangular area of about 14,000km2, and is bounded by the Benue and Niger rivers. The area was formerly a division of the Kabba province, and is now a part of Kogi State. The capital is called Idah in Kogi State.

The Igala people are lead by a figure called the Attah (“Father in English”). Female leadership is highly recognized in Igala, and their first leader was a female named “Ebule Jonu”; she was succeeded by her brother, Agana-Poje. Therefore, the first person to rule the kingdom was a female.

The Igala people are known for many delicious delicacies. 5 of their unique ones include:

Ogidigbo

Ogidigbo is a popular Igala delicacy. It is highly nutritious. It is a variation of moi moi made with corn.

Ijobu

Ijobu is another dish loved by the Igala people. It is made waldo with corn. Ijobu does not require much ingredients, but Ijobu will be best prepared by an individual that is an expert in making it.

Omaidi

The Omaidi delicacy, unlike the above listed dishes that are made with fresh corn, the Omaidi is made with millet. It does not require much ingredients.

Oro-Egbe

The Oro-egbe meal another Igala traditional meal that taste great. The only problem with preparing Ore-egbe is that it gets spoiled if kept for a long period of time.

 

Obo-Igogo Soup

Another delicious soup. You can decide to prepare it with Ugwu leaf or bitter leaf.

Sure you didn't know about this. Try making one of these soups and drop a comment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

May 27, 2021 Healthcare Tips For 2021

Healthcare Tips For 2021

It’s easy to get confused when it comes to health and nutrition. Even qualified experts often seem to hold opposing opinion. Yet, despite all the disagreements, a number of wellness tips are well supported by research.

Here are a few health and nutrition tips that are actually based on good science.

Eat A Healthy Diet

Eating a balanced and healthy diet, being made from fruits, vegetables and protein can lead to a healthier lifestyle. These foods reduce the risk of malnutrition and non-communicable diseases (NCD’s) such as diabetes, heart disease, stroke and cancer.

Reduce Intake Of Harmful Fats

Reducing your intake of fatty foods and snacks that will only add more weight to your body. Your fat consumed should be adequately less than 30% of your total energy intake. Unsaturated fats are preferable over saturated fats and trans-fats.

Preferable unsaturated fats are found in foods like fish, avocado and nuts, sunflower, soybean, etc. Saturated fats can be found in fatty meat, butter, palm and coconut oil.             

Avoid Excess Alcohol 

Avoid consuming alcohol frequently. Consuming excess alcohol can lead to health problems such as mental and behavioral disorders, including alcohol dependence, some cancers and heart diseases, as well as injuries from violence, road clashes and collisions.

Say No To Smoking

Smoking tobacco and Indian hemp causes NCD’s such as respiratory diseases, heart disease and stroke. Tobacco also kills non-smokers through second hand exposure. Do not start smoking and fight for your right to breathe tobacco smoke-free air.

Get Active

Physical activity involves any bodily movement produced by skeletal muscles that requires energy expenditure. They all include exercise and activities undertaken while working, playing and recreational pursuits. Adults aged 18-64 should be able to do at least 150 minutes of moderate physical activity during the week.

Exercise Regularly

Staying physically fit has numerous benefits, including boosting cardiovascular and Muscular health and fighting disease. Exercise can also positively affect your mental well-being by helping the body relieve stress and reduce depression. Protecting your mental health has been especially critical during the stress of the pandemic, so try to squeeze in the minimum American Heart Association-recommended 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic  exercise each week, plus at least two days on which you do muscle-strengthening activities.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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