Your body count is the number of people you have had sex with, and that information is something that you should keep to yourself except you are telling your doctor or physician.
The topic in question is quite a sensitive and controversial subject as the answer varies from person to person. Whatever a person has a to say, the individual should not be judged as he/she must have weighed it and seen that it has worked for him/her.
In a recent interview, random individuals were picked to air their opinion and the first person Wole (name changed for the sake of privacy) said that he feels that knowing about her counts is a worthless information. He likes to live in the moment and the current status is what matters as long as his partner is healthy and sexually active therefore, he would never ask such.
While discussing with Wole, he also said it is not something he would like to factor while being in a relationship with a lady because there are unintended things that could have factored in the number of sex a lady might have had. He also noted on a lighter note that he loves a lady with experience, the badder the better lol…
Moving on, to another guy, Okoli asked, “why do you want to give yourself that headache? It is not worth bothering about. I won’t ever talk about it because I know others must have been with her’.
He also inserted that even if it is a lady, he wants to have something serious with and probably marry he still won’t ask as he must have seen something before choosing to date her.
Okoli insisted that there is no such thing as perfect so he wouldn’t expect perfect in return. For him, what matters most is knowing that his partner is longer in her old relationship and is faithful to him. He finally asked a rather reasonable question “what if she just keeps getting jilted at every point, she has been in a relationship in time past.
On reaching the third person he had a contrary opinion. Layo said It’s not a requirement, neither is it an important discussion but asking to know will bring a form of closure. He will be to be able to know and weigh the sexual activeness of his partner.
He said “It actually doesn’t not matter but at the point of entry I have an idea of who I’m having sex with. I’ll rather find out from the inside rather than find out from an outsider…I mean...i have no issues with the body counts but I need to know”.
So, we have two Nos and one Yes. You might be wondering why this article featured only guys well there’s a part two. Stay tuned.
This brings us here; do you think it can be deal breaker for you when you find out how many partners your partner has been with? Think about it and drop your comment.
