Renowned Nigerian Catholic priest, Rev. Fr. Chinenye Oluoma, has delivered a bold message to women aged 35 and above who aspire to marry: take matters into your own hands and don't wait for men to propose.
In a video shared on his Facebook page, Oluoma challenges the conventional notion that women should passively wait for men to initiate marriage proposals. Instead, he advocates for women to actively pursue relationships, especially when they notice mutual interest from men.
Addressing women in this age group, Oluoma emphasizes that continuing to wait for men to propose may signal unreadiness for marriage. He humorously remarks that, at 35, waiting for a proposal at the airport implies a lack of readiness, jokingly interpreting "menopause" as "men will pause."
Encouraging women to break societal norms, Oluoma urges them to approach men they are interested in, even if those men lack the confidence to initiate conversations. He advises women to take the initiative, making it easier for men by expressing their own interests and positive qualities.
In essence, Oluoma's message advocates for empowerment and proactive engagement in pursuing romantic relationships, challenging outdated conventions, and empowering women to take charge of their love lives.
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